Speaking Up or Staying Silent: When Do Our Words Matter?

It is no mystery, that I am a strong, opinionated woman. Sometimes, when I speak, it is better if I stay silent, and other times, I am silent, when I should speak up. Ultimately, we all know our own level of tolerance, and what is important to speak up about and what is not. On a personal note, I try to stay as still as a log if someone is attacking me personally, and anger surfaces. What usually happens, is that I am at the loosing end always, since more discomfort arises when I say something that is best left unsaid.

Yesterday, however, I saw something on television while I was exercising on the tred-mill. As many of you know from my past posts, I am a strong advocate for the mentally ill. On this station, a major network was advertising an episode called Supernatural: The Insane asylum. As part of the promotion, the crew were wearing straight jackets, drooling, and acting in a very unflattering way, using words like 'nuts' and 'crazy' as well. I sent an email to the station informing them how there was nothing funny nor amusing about someone who had to be restrained against his/her will, and that this segment was mean-spirited and insensitive. I let it be. Immediately, the head of the station, a Mr. Rubin, sent me a letter of apology, and explanation and acknowledged that this segment was indeed in poor taste. I sent him a letter thanking him and indicated that if he was willing to do a segment on heightening people's awareness of mental illness, I would be happy to participate. We will see what happens.

Today, I feel good. I was able to go outside of myself and fight for a cause and against a stigma that I am passionate about. To change the view or opinions of one is, in Judaism, like changing the world.

Wishing everyone and their families a Happy and peaceful holiday.

Thank you for your minds.