Some Sad News
My brother just called to tell me that my father has died. He was 77, not in excellent health, but just passed away in his sleep. We were not close, and since he moved out of state, we became more and more distant. I have never been able to forgive him for not coming to my daughter's bat mitzvah. The reasons were not religious, he and my mother did not want to put themselves out of the way for the trip.
But now I am feeling very sad. Sadder in fact than I thought I would, and must think about how to respond so that he can have a proper Jewish burial. Although not religious, he is a Kohan, and certain rules do apply.
At least for Father's Day, I was able to call him, and wish him a good father's day, and good health. I almost did not make that call, as I was filled with my own resentments, but for him, I am happy I did today. He was very happy to hear from me.
Goodbye Dad....
I will be taking a break for awhile from blogging until I can get these issues together.
Thank you for your minds.
But now I am feeling very sad. Sadder in fact than I thought I would, and must think about how to respond so that he can have a proper Jewish burial. Although not religious, he is a Kohan, and certain rules do apply.
At least for Father's Day, I was able to call him, and wish him a good father's day, and good health. I almost did not make that call, as I was filled with my own resentments, but for him, I am happy I did today. He was very happy to hear from me.
Goodbye Dad....
I will be taking a break for awhile from blogging until I can get these issues together.
Thank you for your minds.
27 Comments:
So sorry to hear about your dad. Blessings to you and your family at this time.
Take care Barbara.
We'll be here awaiting your return.
Oh Barbara, I am so very sorry for your loss.
My condolences as well.
I'm so sorry. Take care of yourself during this period of mourning.
Take care of yourself as you take care of others at this time.
Honey, I'm so sorry. I'll be thinking about you a lot over the next few weeks. :-(
Thank you for your kind words.
We are driving up to Las Vegas tonight. I have a Rabbi from Chabad going to do the Tahara, and sit with my father until we get there.
B, I am so very sorry. Will be thinking of you and your family in the days to come. Hugs, R
I'm very sorry to hear about this loss, Barbara. We'll be thinking of you...
Shalom uvracha be to you and to the spirit of your father.
M
I'm so sorry, B... Please know that you have my deepest condolences.
Ange
Hey there, just reading over your blog, and wanted to say sorry for you, but I know what you are going thru. There are lots of people who are in your same boat. Sending thoughts to you and your family, from texas.
Oh, Barbara! I'm so sorry. You and your family are in my thoughts.
Oh Barbara I'm so sorry for your loss. You and your family are deep in my thoughts.
I am so sorry for your loss B. Sending prayers your way.
Hearts and thougts are with you and your family today. If there's anything I can do...
babs sorry for your loss, just remember no blogging during shiva. my you and your family be comforted for their loss
Deepest Condolences Barbara.
Take it easy over this next wee while,
take time with the family, ..we`ll all still be here when you get back.
You are in our thoughts.
"Boruch Dayon Emes"
HaMakom Yinachem Eschem...May you find comfort amongst the other mourners of Israel.
Sincerest condolences.......
sorry to hear this news, barbara
So sorry for your loss, and for the loss of your relationship with him.
I hope you can resolve your feelings as you take some time away.
condolances and best wishes, barbara
Barbara, you have my condolences - losing a parent is such a transition.
Sorry about your loss...
sorry to hear about your father. you have my prayers.
I, too, am very very sorry to hear about the passing of your dad(z"l). I hope you are able to cope with this sad event as well as help those who were close to your dad.
Be'tikva, Eitan.
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